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Pop Culture

No More Soggy Seconds—What the Hell Does “Reheating Nachos” Mean?

4
min. read

If you’ve been online in the past few months, you’ve probably seen someone accused of “reheating nachos.” What started as an offhand reality TV moment has evolved into a full-fledged internet metaphor for recycled ideas—whether it’s a musician revisiting an old sound, a brand rehashing a past campaign, or a celebrity trying to relive former glory. The phrase has spread across stan Twitter, TikTok, and beyond, but as with all viral slang, its meteoric rise begs the question: how the hell did we get here?

Origin

One moment on a reality show is all it took for the internet to adopt “reheating nachos." The phrase’s origin story is legend at this point: Natalie Nunn, a reality TV firecracker, accidentally birthed a meme in late 2023. Caught on camera eyeing another girl’s food, she launched a thousand jokes about “stealing nachos”.

The internet took that idea – wanting what someone else has – and ran. Eventually, we got “reheat nachos” to describe trying to grab someone else’s glory or redo your own past success and failing. It’s giving copycat with extra steps. Stan Twitter, TikTok, and fandom circles ran with it, and soon the metaphor jumped everywhere.

Timeline

Late 2023 – Origins on Reality TV

  • The phrase's backstory starts with a late-2023 episode of Baddies West. During one scene, cast member Natalie Nunn was visibly eyeing co-star Stunna Girl's nachos with a bit too much interest.
  • Viewers seized the moment, coining "wanted nachos" as a stand-in for envy. Stan accounts on Twitter soon embraced it, joking that "X wants Y's nachos" whenever a star seemed to crave another's success or following.

2024 – From Envy to Leftover Nachos

  • As the meme spread through 2024, it morphed from simply "wanting" someone else's nachos into calling out stale ideas.
  • Fans started referring to "leftover nachos" to describe recycled content, implying an artist was reusing an established formula instead of innovating. By mid-year, the term "reheating nachos" surfaced.

January 2025 – Doja Cat and a Meme Goes Viral

  • In early January 2025, a viral social media post jokingly requested Doja Cat "reheat those nachos" for her next album, essentially asking her to revisit the sound that made her earlier hits successful. The tweet racked up tens of thousands of likes, instantly elevating "reheating nachos" from niche slang to a mainstream meme.
  • Within days, stan communities piled on with nacho metaphors, accusing every artist with a similar new single or throwback vibe of "reheating someone else's nachos."
  • The meme jumped to TikTok and Instagram, where influencers and content creators joined in with parody skits, reaction videos, and commentary.

February 2025 – Lady Gaga's Abracadabra & Mainstream Moment

  • By February, "reheating nachos" reached its pop culture zenith when Lady Gaga released a surprise single titled "Abracadabra." Its electro-pop style quickly drew comparisons to her older hits, prompting fans to use the nacho metaphor in full force.
  • Some joked Gaga was "reheating her own nachos," while others praised the track for doing just that—fans appreciated that old Gaga was back.
  • Corporate accounts and high-profile individuals began referencing "reheating nachos" in social media posts, confirming the phrase had gone fully mainstream.

From Meme to Mainstream—Peak Nacho?

As often happens with internet slang, the phrase's sudden ubiquity signaled it might already be nearing peak usage. Marketing campaigns and morning talk shows picked it up, risking overexposure.

Despite that, "reheating nachos" remains a prime example of stan culture's creativity in repurposing everyday concepts—turning a random TV clip into a broad commentary on recycled trends. While it may eventually go stale, for the moment it stands as the go-to roast for any artist or franchise accused of repeating past glories.

(We're guilty of this, too, but let us plug our nachos for a sec...)

Where Do We Go From Here?

“Reheating nachos” began where most viral slang does — in the creative kitchens of Black Twitter — before leaking into the mainstream. Like every internet trend, its lifespan follows a brutal script: niche communities mint it, brands microwave it into oblivion, and by the time Kleenex starts quoting it? Consider it soggy.

Kind of feels like we’re getting to that point. Let’s see how long it lasts.

Company Updates

We’re Making Privacy Simpler: Explore Our New Safety & Privacy Center

4
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At Grindr, we prioritize creating a space where the LGBTQ+ community can connect with confidence and peace of mind. Today, we're excited to introduce our new, in-App Safety & Privacy Center, available to all users worldwide—a clear, user-friendly hub designed to help you understand and manage exactly how your data is collected, used, and protected.

Why This Matters

Transparent, Easy-to-Access Information

We know that clarity and access is key. Our Safety & Privacy Center puts all privacy and safety-related information in one place, making it easy to find the answers to questions you may have. With just a few taps, you can understand how to control your advertising preferences, access your data, or access a vast trove of sexual health and safety information without having to leave the Grindr App.

Community-Focused Protection

The Grindr community spans a wide range of locales and legal landscapes. Our privacy and safety features and content are developed with our LGBTQ+ users in mind. You can find safety information available in over 20 languages including Arabic, Thai, and Malay. 

A Principled Approach for Future Expansion  

Our privacy and engineering teams use a principled approach to design your app experience designed to protect your information today and be flexible enough to adapt to tomorrow's challenges. As laws evolve and new technologies emerge, the Safety & Privacy Center will continue to grow and improve right alongside Grindr. There’s still much more to come as we continue to build out this feature for you. 

Key Features

Unified Dashboard

  • One-Tap Toggle: Rather than toggling settings directly, our Safety & Privacy Center gives you a clear, centralized overview of features like AI model training and personalized ads. You’ll find straightforward instructions and links to the relevant app settings—making it easy to update your preferences across Grindr.
  • Clear Explanations: Short, plain-language descriptions clarify what each setting does so you can make informed decisions.

Easy Access to Help & Resources

  • In-App Guidance: Find best practices, FAQs, and step-by-step instructions all in one place.
  • Community Support: We’ve enhanced our Help Center with dedicated guidance tailored for LGBTQ+ users, ensuring you have quick access to answers, resources, and best practices that reflect our community’s unique needs. It’s just a tap away whenever you need advice or want to learn more about staying safe on Grindr.

What's Next

Your feedback is essential to helping us refine and evolve our privacy measures. We'll continue to refine our approach and listen to the community to ensure our Safety & Privacy Center remains best-in-class—keeping you and your data protected.Experience It for Yourself

  1. Open Grindr on your device.
  2. Swipe to open the sidebar (or tap your profile picture in the top left corner).
  3. Click “Safety & Privacy Center” in the bottom left corner. 
  4. Explore the new features and choose the privacy levels that feel right for you.

We're dedicated to earning your trust whenever you open Grindr—so you can focus on connecting, discovering, and enjoying the app on your terms.

News

Third Leg of the Journey: Grindr’s ‘Who’s The Asshole?’ Season 3 Adds Inches

3
min. read

Still scrubbing last season’s mess out of your sheets? Don’t bother—Katya’s back with a fresh crop of dirty guests, so prepare to be entertained, horrified, and even more turned on.

Season 2 Recap

In case you missed it, Season 2 gave us the likes of Adam Lambert, Cosmo Lombino, Gottmik, Bowen Yang, Brandon Kyle Goodman, and Evan Ross Katz. Check out their episodes for a refresher.

What’s New in Season 3

We can’t stop going deeper—Season 3 is stacked. Here’s who we’ve got:

Lisa Rinna (Feb 13)

From posing for the Playboy cover while pregnant to spilling why Harry Hamlin’s the ultimate gay icon, Rinna’s here to prove sex after 60 isn’t just alive—it’s thriving. Plus: Why Selena Gomez or Jenna Ortega should play her in a biopic. Selena’s got the lips, but Jenna Ortega can bring the knives.

Christian Cowan (Feb 20)

Christian Cowan is spilling fashion’s best-kept secrets, from the loud luxury trend currently rocking runways to how Teletubbies inspired a certain pair of iconic boots. He’s also dishing on what happens when he dresses Mariah Carey and JLo in the same gown, and how one particular Grindr date led him straight to church.

Gus Kenworthy (Feb 27)

Olympian heartthrob turned Hollywood chaos agent Gus Kenworthy graces the pod to compare Winter vs. Summer Olympics sexcapades—apparently, medals aren’t the only things that get shared. He faked straight in 2014 (didn’t last), cameoed on American Horror Story, and he’s sure figure skating out-gays tennis any day. Throw in ex-friendships, trolls, catfishing drama, and some kinky Alien-or-Predator dilemma—and we’ve got an episode that absolutely sticks the landing.

Zachary Zane (March 6)

Meet your ethical “Boyslut”—Grindr’s pioneering Sex and Relationships expert, Zachary Zane. Whether you’re sleeping with one or sleeping with twenty, Zachary’s here to help you have the most fulfilling relationships (and sex). Having fucked well over 2,000 people, he’s got confessions that’ll make your wild side look positively tame. Experiencing sexual shame or struggling to embrace your kinks and secretly slutty side? Zachary’s got you covered. 

Meg Stalter (March 13)

Fresh off filming Hacks with the legendary Jean Smart, Meg Stalter is dishing top tips for spicing up the bedroom, setting the record straight on her bi-awakening, and tackling every tired misconception about bisexuality. Ever wonder why she adores roleplaying? Let her hear you out.

Joel Kim Booster (March 20)

Meet Joel Kim Booster: the comedic dynamo tackling dick-size stereotypes, coining fresh nicknames for that 40-something boyfriend, and proving a top can pop the question—with style. Catch him falling in love with life, love, and maybe even you.

JORDY (Mar 27)

Leaving Facebook open on Mom’s laptop isn’t your average coming-out tale, but for JORDY, it’s just the opening act. Now he’s hitting the road, releasing anthemic bops, turning Grindr into his tour bus sidekick, and racking up host-related pet peeves that he’s more than happy to dish on. Think your love life is out there? Wait till you hear the chaotic tales he’s collected.

Closing Hook

Season 3 premieres February 13—because nothing says “New Year, New You” like Katya going deep. Stream wherever you get your podcasts.

Cancel your plans. Your holes (and soul) won’t regret it.

Pop Culture

Grindr’s Guide to the 2025 Grammys: Who We Think Should Win

4
min. read

Ah, the Grammys—music’s biggest night of playing it safe. If there’s one thing the Recording Academy fears more than controversy, it’s what might happen if they deny [REDACTED] another gold for her ever-expanding trophy case.

Before you get too hyped, remember: the Academy has a nearly supernatural gift for disappointing #theculture, and we’re placing bets that they’ll keep the streak alive this year.

This year, we’re over it. We’re naming our picks for who should win.

Ready to cast your own votes? We’ve created a blank Grammys ballot so you can decide for yourself. Download it here and keep score at home.

Album of the Year: Charli XCX — Brat

Look no further than your fave straight coworker, who awkwardly Shazam’d “360” at a rave while pretending they’ve “always been into electronic.” It's moments like these that prove Charli’s total takeover: she didn't just soundtrack 2024—she became it.

Brat is the sound of pop music mainlining 2024’s contradictions—the “I’m baby” infantilization of adulthood, the grand “delulu is the solulu” cope of just about everything, and the art of crying in a club bathroom while your Instagram story hits 300 views. It wants to be screamed, snorted, and maybe thrown at someone’s head. Talking about it is like trying to describe a nightclub while you’re still drunk as hell in the bathroom. You can’t do it justice—you just know it changed you. Grammy winner or not, Brat won 2024.

Best Pop Solo Performance: Sabrina Carpenter — Espresso

Sabrina Carpenter’s Espresso distills pop’s current formula to its purest, most addictive shot: a TikTok-engineered hook designed to hijack dopamine pathways and lyrics that mock influencer narcissism while embodying it. It’s pop as both commentary and complicity, a hyper-aware product of the machine that mocks the machine. And then there’s “That’s that me espresso”, a line that’s either the dumbest genius or the geniusest dumb thing ever uttered—a mantra for the ADHD generation that needs everything to be both sincere and a joke at the same time.

Record of the Year: Chappell Roan — Good Luck, Babe!

This year, there’s a radioactive pink elephant in the room, and her name is Chappell Roan. Good Luck, Babe! is a masterclass in shading the girl that broke your heart. With vocal acrobatics swinging between a Broadway diva mid-exorcism and Kate Bush on Adderall, Roan commands every second of the spotlight. And the Academy? They love a good narrative. Here's one: a song that clawed its way to a billion streams without a TikTok challenge, a celebrity collab, or a Pepsi-funded Super Bowl ad—just a chorus that cuts deep and a bridge that spells it out for you: Girl, you gay. Roan is queering the timeline, and it’s just the beginning.

Song of the Year: Kendrick Lamar — Not Like Us

Billboard No. 1. TikTok ubiquity. Political campaigns hijacking its hook. It’s the rare diss that’s bigger than the feud— a victory lap so ruthless, a fully grown-ass man lawyered up because he couldn’t handle the read. And yet, the discourse will fixate on decorum—as if hip-hop stars owe us grace, as if every lyric must pass some moral purity test. But it's all bunk—the Academy’s been handing trophies to breakup anthems and thinly veiled roasts since Taylor Swift weaponized a red lip. “Not Like Us” just cuts out the metaphor and hands you the knife.

Best New Artist: Chappell Roan

After being dropped by her label, Chappell Roan financed her own album and reasserted control over her career. However, 2024 showed us that fans often claim to value authenticity—up until it arrives in an inconvenient tone. Roan’s so-called “manic” public appearances, from her unfiltered rants and canceled shows to her refusal to perform at the White House, do not constitute a PR crisis so much as they illustrate an artist unwilling to commodify her psyche. In doing so, Chappell Roan’s done us all a service: made pop music feel dangerous again. Not dangerous in a way that’s scandalous, dangerous in a way that tells the truth. And if that’s not “Best New Artist” material, then maybe the category’s broken, too.

Best Pop Duo: Guess — Charli XCX feat. Billie Eilish

If someone fed a 2004 iPod Nano through a woodchipper, Guess is what would come right out. Charli and Billie resurrected Y2K-era rave girl grit and contaminated it with 2024’s dystopian sheen. And while people are, of course, dissecting every bit of the sapphic undertones—whether it’s too calculated, whether Billie’s queerness feels “authentic” enough—none of that seems to matter. It’s messy and fun and weirdly intimate in a blasé, indifferent kind of way, like you’re catching a private joke between two people who know exactly how to stir things up without breaking a sweat.

Best Producer: Dan Nigro

Dan Nigro’s most recent outputs—Olivia Rodrigo’s Guts and Chappell Roan’s The Rise and Fall of a Midwest Princess—are clinics in producer-as-chameleon. With Rodrigo, he channeled teenage spite into scuffed pop-punk. With Roan, he inverted the approach: disco synths that glint like rhinestones on a thrift-store jacket, their artificial sheen offset by the earthy grain of her delivery, as if the Midwest itself were humming beneath the gloss. The through line? His work is a case study in how production can amplify authenticity by refusing to “fix” it. The Academy loves star-making hitmakers, and Nigro’s the man proving that sincerity is still pop’s most powerful currency.

Pop Culture

7 Queer Films to Watch Instead of Emilia Pérez

7
min. read

When the Academy Awards announced its nominations for their 97th annual ceremony of glamor, movies, and industry self-congratulation, many people met the news of Jacques Audiard’s film Emilia Pérez netting 13 nods, the most for a non-English language movie and LGBTQ film up to this point, with a bit of surprise. The film — about the head of a drug cartel (Karla Sofía Gascón, the first openly trans person to be nominated for a major acting award at the Oscars) who transitions, disappears from her family (Selena Gomez as wife) with the help of a lawyer (Zoe Saldana), and then reappears in their lives while starting a nonprofit organization to help the victims and families of cartel-related violence in Mexico — has encountered criticism from the trans community, from Mexican audiences, and those who find its use of AI software dubious.  

These are perfectly valid complaints to have about the movie, a musical that somehow features both bad music and no fun, despite the potential of its admittedly bonkers premise. A musical about a woman in nonprofits! That should be entertaining! Instead, it takes every moment of levity and stomps on it mercilessly into self-seriousness. 

But, basically, despite its various controversies — bad rep, AI, made by a mediocre French director — none of this, to me, is worth getting that angry about. The Oscars platformed a very self-serving and pretty terrible movie? Alert the presses!!! 

The Oscars are kind of fun and interesting when one considers their role in film and entertainment history and the various ripples it has throughout popular culture. Never forget: The Oscars—for all their glitz and intermittently interesting taste—are Hollywood’s annual exercise in self-mythology. They rewards narratives that flatter industry egos, not those that challenge power. I mean, the Oscars started out as a union-busting thing!!

So, as opposed to using too much energy fuming over something as mediocre, or at least disappointing, as Emilia Pérez, best to turn your attentions to the exceptional queer cinema that was released in 2024 and had little chance of ever getting Oscar’s attention. From wacky nostalgia to road trip noirs, and neoliberal lampoons and drag excellence, here are seven queer masterpieces from 2024. 

I Saw the TV Glow / Directed by Jane Schoebrun

Source: A24

Director and writer Jane Schoebrun is clearly borne of a particular time when the Internet wouldn’t become a tool of self-actualization until they were out of high school. They’d dive into its possibilities a little later, but in their immediate pre-pubescent adolescence, there was always the otherworldly allure to the shimmer of a television screen. In Schoenbrun’s masterful second feature – a substantial leg up after their first movie We’re All Going to the World’s Fair and proof that, with apparatus and resources in hand, their ideas and consideration of the hypnotic effect of digital technology as both way to become as well as way to avoid becoming – Justice Smith’s Owen is sent back into his memories of 1996 as an alienated teenager whose only source of solace was a cheesy tv show (a la Buffy) called The Pink Opaque, an imperfect conduit to making an equally adrift friend in Maddy (Jack Haven).

Schoebrun has crafted a complex, mesmeric mood piece, hyperaware of the comforts of nostalgia as well as their inherently limiting realities. More than that, I Saw the TV Glow perfectly captures the moment when what we consumed was no longer just pieces of aspirational material, but things we glommed onto ourselves to define who we are and what our values are. If you’re willing to get on board, Smith’s melancholic gaze into the camera will shatter your heart and open you up. 

Crossing / Directed by Levan Akin

Source: MUBI

Levan Akin was one of the first filmmakers of Georgian descent to make a movie that explored LGBTQ life in Georgia with his film And Then We Danced, about a young dancer in training who navigates his desire for another on the team, while also parsing through tradition and modern dance. Crossing offers an even deeper examination of the cultural, social, and political complications of being queer in Turkey, where an older teacher (Mzia Arabuli) travels to Istanbul in search of her niece, who was kicked out of the family home for her transness. With the help of a listless teen (Lucas Kankava), she links up with a lawyer for trans rights (Deniz Dumanlı), who aids in their quest. But the journey to finding the missing niece becomes a keen exercise in exploring memory, regret, and the (im)possibility of fixing the past, while trying to forge a new future. Shot with a breadth and appreciation of the streets of Istanbul while acknowledging the unfortunate realities of Turkey’s queer youth, Crossing is an exceptional look at trying to repair the brokenness in relationships and within oneself. 

The People’s Joker / Directed by Vera Drew

Source: TIFF

The People’s Joker, Vera Drew’s anarchic satirical auto-origin story, flies through styles, animations, green screens, artisan-made graphics, cheekily delivered exposition, and relentless pokes at Lorne Michaels, the creator and head honcho of the endlessly running Saturday Night Live. It is seriously unserious, a lampoon of all the comic book movie tropes you could possibly think of and then some, replete with villains (Mr. J, a Jared Leto styled trans masc Joker; Vera’s mother; Batman), henchpeople (The Riddler, Poison Ivy, Bob Odenkirk), and underground comedy clubs. This all-out assault of the senses and the furious passion with which it is delivered recalls the New Queer Cinema of the 1990s, a dynamite riposte to regressive and oppressive politics and, perhaps even more acutely, the lip service that followed the 2010s that materialized into not that much for trans people. Raucous and remorseless, The People’s Joker has a deep love for both the world that Drew ruthlessly lampoons, as well as the version of Gotham she creates for herself and her audience. 

Stress Positions / Directed by Theda Hammel 

Source: Neon

When Theda Hammel is not making filthy quips on NYMPHOWARS, her successful podcast with fellow musician Macy Rodman, the writer and director is thinking about the unhinged reality that the inhabitants of her generation (solidly millennial people who have at least a vague recollection of where they were when 9/11 happened) have to navigate: the politics, the virtue signaling, the disillusionment, the just getting by tied up with ultimately the same kind of bourgeois aspirations the generation before had but, like this one, refused to admit it.

In Stress Positions, her feature debut, John Early’s Terry Goon welcomes his nephew Bahlul (Qaher Harhash) into his ex-husband’s brownstone to recover from a leg injury in the midst of the COVID-19 lockdown. While everyone around them, including Terry’s best friend Karla (Hammel), starts to gather around Bahlul as a new prized object onto which to project their fantasies, Terry goes on the defensive, perhaps ignoring his own tendency towards clamoring over his nephew selfishly. At once brutally hilarious and incisive in its critique of neoliberal malaise and self-congratulation, Stress Positions is one of the timeliest pieces of queer cinema to confront where queer politics went in the 21st century. 

She Is Conann / Directed by Bertrand Mandico

Source: Altered Innocence

Filmmaker and music video maven Bertrand Mandico has a penchant for the phantasmagoric, his images bleary and drunk on style, color, and flaring lights. In his earlier film The Wild Boys, gender was as easy to disrupt as playing around on a penal colony. In She Is Conann, Mandico freely interprets the myth of Conan the Barbarian, which originated in a series of comic books in the early 1930s. While its many interpretations have reveled in the unrepentant violence of the character, Mandico makes the connection between cruelty, gender, and the politics of aesthetics itself.

As Conann travels through time and the audience comes in contact with the brutalist through different ages, eras, and aspect ratios (she’s played by Claire Duburcq, Christa Théret, Sandra Parfait, Agata Buzek, and Nathalie Richard), Mandico laments art’s parasitic relationship with commerce (or vice versa) and questions whether the age of art for art’s sake was dead on arrival. Florid and intoxicatingly weird, She Is Conann places queerness and the passage of time as not so much allies or enemies, but rivals pulsating with erotic charge. 

Solo / Directed by Sophie Dupuis

Source: Lou Scramble

The lithe and lanky Théodore Pellerin has become an indie fixture over the last several years, appearing in films like Boy Erased, Never Rarely Sometimes Always, Beau is Afraid, and the cancelled way before its time On Becoming a God in Central Florida. In Sophie Dupuis’ excellent film Solo, his gawky fairy-like presence takes center stage, as a burgeoning young drag queen in Montreal named Simon who finds himself in love and with a creative partner in Olivier (Félix Maritaud). But their relationship gradually takes a turn, with Olivier revealing a manipulative, nasty streak, forcing Simon to question his own aspirations and creative capabilities as Olivier starts to take credit for everything. A truly fresh perspective on queer relationships and the mercurial nature of inspiration and artistry, as well as the complexities of creative partnership, Solo lets Pellerin showcase his dramatic acumen as well as his elegant and languid movements on stage. 

Drive Away Dykes / Directed by Ethan Coen

Source: Focus Features

Sure, the official release title of Ethan Coen and Tricia Cooke’s bouncy and loony road trip comedy noir is Drive Away Dolls, but come on (it's titled onscreen as Henry James' Drive-Away Dykes). It’s all about the goofy lesbian camp, the Kiss Me Deadly-esque dildo, the cartoonish violence, and the biting jokes about pre-2000s queer women’s culture. With Margaret Qualley and Geraldine Viswanathan at the wheel and suspicious cargo in the back of the vehicle, the pair make their way to Tallahassee, hitting up lesbian bars on the way while cops and criminals are tailing them and their mysterious package. A goofy, sardonic throwback to Russ Meyers, Coen and Cooke savor the flavors of the late ‘90s dyke culture that was, and still is, at risk of disappearing. The landscape of queer cinema, even and especially in cultural and political moments that place targets on the back of LGBTQ+ people, has always been rich, exciting, and often beyond Oscar’s recognition. Which leaves it up to audiences to discover and cherish the enthralling kinds of creativity and artistry that queer filmic expression can take, awards or no awards. 

Music

Introducing "Tap or Block" with Troye Sivan

The Tour is Over. The Games Begin.
2
min. read

Fresh off the final show of his Something to Give Each Other tour, Troye Sivan—Grindr’s newly crowned 2024 Babygirl of the Year—stumbles offstage with his dancers in tow: half-dressed, sweat-soaked, still buzzing from the adrenaline. But instead of winding down, they’re doubling down. Introducing Tap or Block: a rapid-fire showdown where Troye and crew settle the app’s most divisive questions.

It’s simple: If you love it, you tap. If it’s a hard pass, you block. But the topics aren’t your usual small talk. Troye and his six touring dancers—Mauro, Simone, Benjamin, Theo, Samuel, and Ainsley—tackle topics that split Grindr’s DMs wide open. We’re talking unshowered gym bodies, body hair dilemmas, and whether calling someone “dude” in the bedroom is good foreplay or a straight shot to blue balls. Who’s to say, dude?

“Dating and hookups can be complex, sexy, messy, intoxicating, and confusing,” Troye said in a statement to Grindr. “I love how Grindr and this campaign celebrate all of this with humor, honesty, and through community. It’s refreshing to show these conversations in an authentic way.”

Want to see where they draw the line? Don’t take our word for it.

Tap Or Block is out now. Troye’s game if you are.

The Tour is Over. The Games Begin.
News

A Notice to All Tops: Opposite Day Requires Your Immediate Bottoming

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: From the desk of Grindr
4
min. read

Attention Tops,

You are hereby notified that, in observance of Opposite Day, your usual role of fearless top is temporarily suspended. For too long, you’ve coasted on vibes alone while bottoms are out here doing the Lord’s work. You think lube is a “suggestion”? That fiber is a cereal? Bless your clueless heart.

This is not a drill. This is karma. It’s high time your ego met a bidet, some prep work, and a healthy dose of accountability. Bend over, sweetheart, and get ready to feel the stretch of your own expectations.

You are strongly encouraged to reverse roles for the next 24 hours. Please review the following instructions carefully.

WHAT TO EXPECT

  • Duration: 24 hours of mandated role reversal.
  • Monitoring: Your performance will be reviewed by a panel of Anonymous Bottoms.
  • Consequences: Failure to comply will result in a revocation of your “Good Top Card™” and replacement with a laminated certificate declaring you a ”Pillow Princess Apprentice” (valid until you apologize to your nearest bottom).

PHYSICAL PREP

Put down that burrito and listen up. Topping is more than just showing up. Bottoms put in the work. You will now do the same.

Meal management

  1. No spicy food, dairy, or 3 AM chicken nuggets 24 hours prior.
  2. Eat fiber. No, “I had a salad once” doesn’t count.

Hydration

  1. Drink water throughout the day. But don’t chug. No one wants sloshing around. You’re not a camel.
  2. Coffee is banned 4-6 hours before getting into it. You know why.

Cleaning Out

If you’ve ever said “Hurry up in there,” Venmo your nearest bottom $50, then take a seat—it’s your turn to learn patience. Your three-wipe-and-pray method won’t cut it. You’ll see.

MENTAL PREP

You can have all the physical prep in the world, but if your head’s not in the game, it’ll show. Here’s how to get your mindset in order.

Anxiety

Worrying about every little detail is normal. Bottoms deal with these thoughts all the time, so welcome to their world.

Patience

If you’ve ever rushed a bottom by asking, “Are you done yet?” you now owe them another $50. The phrase you’re looking for is “Take your time.” You’ll learn this, too.

Vulnerability

Taking control might feel natural for you. Letting go? That’s an advanced art form. Surrendering control requires trust—and bottoms deserve more credit. Let’s see if you can handle it.

LUBRICATION AND LOGISTICS

Contrary to top folklore, that crusty bottle of lube under your sink won’t cut it. Time to go to the store (oh no, more work!) and pick up a new bottle. Got it? Great.

Initial Application

You’ll likely need a lot more than a few drops. Resist the urge to skimp—you’ll only be making your own situation worse. If you pause to ask “is this enough?”, assume the answer is no. It’s always no.

Reapplication Breaks

Lube doesn’t last forever. Interrupting the action to apply more might feel like a chore… because it is a chore bottoms often undertake. If you choose to skip a re-lube break, enjoy the friction burn. (We’re joking. Please don’t skip the re-lube.)

Clean-Up & Aftercare

Post-session hygiene is equally critical. If you thought your sole responsibility was wiping off sweat, guess again. Also, you’ll likely need a trip to the bathroom. Your colon’s not a lost & found, so make sure to drop off his strays.

COMMUNICATION PROTOCOLS

You’ve spent ages rattling off directions (“Move here,” “Do that”). Now it’s your turn to learn how actual two-way communication works. We’ll speak slowly.

Consent

Ask. Then ask again. Then ask if they’re sure they’re sure. Welcome to the “enthusiastic yes” multiverse.

Feedback

When you’re on the receiving end, you can’t just grunt and hope they figure it out. You actually have to speak up—shocking, we know. And if your partner asks you that question, you don’t get to shrug. This is where you say “slower,” “faster,” or whatever other word you can manage.

Post-Action

Cuddling is mandatory. If you roll over, the Anonymous Bottoms panel will take note.

EVALUATION

When the 24-hour countdown wraps, the panel of Anonymous Bottoms will quietly assess whether you gave this role reversal the respect it deserves. From here on out, please remember:

  • Bend over, literally and metaphorically, in the spirit of exploring new territory.
  • Encourage your partner to steer the ship. A day of letting go might just prove how your usual captaincy has spared you many hidden challenges.
  • Acknowledge that occasionally, the “harder” job belongs to the bottom, especially when it’s Opposite Day and the world expects you to get in—or let someone get in—your ring.

Enjoy your Opposite Day obligations. May you emerge with a brand-new perspective—and a deep humility about all that bottoms do, day in and day out, for your comfort.

And if, by the end of this, you’re still asking, “Why do people say the best bottoms make the best tops?”—you might need another 24 hours.

Signed,

The Opposite Day Council at Grindr

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: From the desk of Grindr
Company Updates

Our 2025 Product Roadmap: A More Personalized Experience, Powered by AI, Wherever You Are

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To Our Grindr Community,

Thank you for making Grindr an essential part of your daily life. Today, we’re unveiling our 2025 Product Roadmap, featuring six groundbreaking AI-driven products that promise to enhance your connections, simplify your travel planning, and align perfectly with the way you interact on Grindr—no matter where you are.

Below is a quick snapshot of what’s coming soon:

  1. AI-Powered Chat Summaries – Quickly revisit the highlights of past chats without missing a beat.
  2. A-List (Working Name) – Intelligent prompts that resurface your strongest connections and keep potential matches front and center.
  3. For You – Curated daily profile recommendations that align with your preferences and intentions.
  4. Discover Tab – A new way to explore and interact with hotties around the world—all from a single Discover tab.
  5. Explore Heatmap (In Development) – A visual guide to the most vibrant gay neighborhoods worldwide, with privacy as a core principle.
  6. Travel Pass – Tools to streamline trip planning, from local recommendations to finding new connections before you even land.

For a detailed look at all the features and what they mean for you, please visit our new 2025 Product Roadmap microsite.

Thank you for continuing to share your feedback and ideas with us. Together, we’re shaping Grindr into the ultimate Global Gayborhood in Your Pocket, and we can’t wait to show you what’s next.

With appreciation for your continued loyalty to and engagement with Grindr,

George Arison, Chief Executive Officer

AJ Balance, Chief Product Officer

Company Updates

We're Looking (For Writers): Pitch Your Writing to the Grindr Editorial Team

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We’re inviting writers who can capture Grindr’s place in the world—whether it’s a comedic hookup debacle, a surprisingly sweet love story, or a cheeky peek at how we shape our identities through our phones. Think of Grindr as the global gayborhood in your pocket, and you’re reporting on its highs, lows, and everything in between.

What We’re After

We want bold, personal takes—stories that go beyond the usual “app success” or “awkward date” tropes. Lay out the good, the bad, and the just-plain-strange. Give us your lived experiences, the cultural moments you can wax poetic about, and the real connections (or near-misses) people find through Grindr.

We also want think pieces on culture, relationships, and sex that push the conversation forward. Whether you’re exploring generational divides in a piece like “No, I Don’t Have Snapchat: A Manifesto for Aging Gays” or dissecting modern hookup etiquette, we want your angle—bold, smart, and distinctly you.

Why Write for Us?

- Your Voice Matters: Raw honesty, a dash of humor, maybe even a little spice—bring it on.

- Room to Experiment: Think confessional essays, thoughtful commentary, or offbeat narratives.

- Fair Compensation: We pay based on factors like length, depth, and your experience level. Once we accept your pitch, we’ll talk details.

Ready to Pitch?

Check our submission link for the latest topics we’re focusing on. If none spark your interest, pitch something totally unexpected. As long as it’s true to you and ties back to Grindr’s cultural impact, we want to see it.

Intrigued? Send us your best.

Company Updates

Staying Safe & Informed During the LA Fires: A Message from Grindr

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min. read

Our Los Angeles community is facing unprecedented challenges due to the ongoing wildfires, and it’s important to know exactly where to turn for help. 

Below, you’ll find LA County’s official resources about shelter locations, transportation assistance, and mental health support. Please share these details with anyone who may need them. 

Evacuation Shelters

Local authorities have provided the following list of centers offering temporary shelter. Please confirm availability directly with the shelter as circumstances may change:

  • Arcadia Community Center – 375 Campus Drive, Arcadia, CA 91007
  • Ritchie Valens Recreation Center – 10736 Laurel Canyon Blvd., Pacoima, CA 91331
  • Pan Pacific Recreation Center – 7600 Beverly Blvd., Los Angeles, CA 90036
  • Westwood Recreation Center – 1350 Sepulveda Blvd., Los Angeles, CA 90025
  • El Camino Real Charter High School – 5440 Valley Circle Blvd., Woodland Hills, CA 91367
  • Pasadena Civic Center – 300 East Green Street, Pasadena, CA 91101
  • Pomona Fairplex – 1101 W McKinley Ave, Pomona, CA 91768

For additional updates on road closures, water alerts, and impacted county services, please visit: lacounty.gov/emergency

Transportation & Housing Assistance

  • Lyft: Lyft has provided the code CAFIRERELIEF25 for up to 2 rides (value $25 each) for 500 riders, valid through 1/15 at 11:59 p.m.
  • Uber: Uber has provided the code WILDFIRE25 in your wallet for a free ride up to $40
  • Airbnb: In partnership with 211 LA, Airbnb is offering free temporary housing for residents who have been displaced. Complete this form to be notified of availability (please note that spaces are limited and completion does not guarantee a stay)
  • Metro: Fare collection is currently suspended systemwide on buses and trains

Mental Health Support

It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed, anxious, or stressed during times like these. If you need to speak with someone, please call the 24/7 Mental Health Helpline at (800) 854-7771.

Official LA County Updates

Stay connected with these official accounts for real-time information:

Sign Up for Emergency Alerts

  • Alert LA County Notification System: Register here
  • Local Emergency Alert Systems in LA County: Find out more

A Note on Community Support & Personal Safety

We're proud to see members of our Grindr community step up to help one another by offering rides or a place to stay. While we encourage this generosity, please remember to keep safety in mind:

  • Communicate with a trusted friend or family member about where you're going
  • Arrange to meet in a public area first if you don't know the person well
  • Follow your instincts: if something feels off, don't hesitate to say no

We understand how challenging this situation is, and we want you to know you're not alone. Please stay informed, prioritize your safety, and support one another during this difficult time. 

Stay safe and look out for each other.

— The Grindr Team

Company Updates

Keeping Minors Off Grindr

Grindr is an adults-only app. We take a multi-pronged approach to keep minors - and predators - off the platform.
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Grindr is more than a casual dating app. It’s a social, community, and lifestyle platform for the GBTQ+ community, the digital gayborhood in your pocket. Our users average more than an hour a day on the app chatting, building relationships, getting advice when traveling to a new city, and networking.

Critically, Grindr is only for adults aged 18 and over who agree to our Terms, Community Guidelines, and Privacy Policy. We do not want minors on the platform and go to great lengths to prevent them from posting a profile to use the app. Our team continuously evaluates and enhances our multi-prong strategy to monitor for, screen, block, and remove underage user profiles and communications by:

  • Categorizing our app under the most age-restrictive settings in the Apple and Google app stores so that only devices permitted to access adults-only apps can download Grindr. Unlike virtually every other major social media and online dating service, you cannot create a Grindr account on the open web, only by downloading the app from major app stores.
  • A mandatory age gate barring prospective users who enter a birth date indicating they’re younger than 18. Not only are they unable to create an account and publish a profile at the time, but their device is banned from creating a Grindr account until they turn 18.
  • A robust and dedicated human content moderation and customer support team that reviews user profiles and communications and bans accounts at the device level if they are suspected to belong to minors or discuss topics related to minors. 
  • AI and machine learning tools that review user-provided information to proactively identify and ban problematic accounts. 
  • Providing users with easy-to-use reporting tools and encouraging them to report problematic user profiles, messages, or other content. Our users play an active role in reporting accounts that they suspect may belong to minors or anyone seeking minors, which are then reviewed by our moderation team. All underage reports are flagged for immediate attention.
  • Cooperating with law enforcement and other relevant third parties to support investigations and help hold those who misuse our platform accountable. Our Trust & Safety team is trained to identify, escalate, and, where appropriate, report child endangerment scenarios to law enforcement in partnership with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC).  
  • Partnerships with child protection organizations like Thorn to support the automatic identification, banning, and reporting of child sexual abuse material. We are members of and regularly work with online child safety groups, including the Tech Coalition and WeProtect Global Alliance, to combat the industry-wide challenge of minors accessing age-inappropriate apps and content.

Although there is currently no way to perfectly verify the age of every person seeking to use an adults-only online platform, and some tools raise significant privacy concerns, technology capabilities are constantly evolving, creating opportunities for new solutions to prevent minors from using platforms like Grindr. GenAI is creating many such opportunities. We have a team of engineers working on new AI-based tools to further improve our ability to identify and remove underage users. As these tools are built, we hope to be in a position to make them available to other platform operators as well. 

We at Grindr work hard to try to provide an accessible and safe platform for adult GBTQ+ people to build community. Our approach to keeping minors off the platform is central to that work. If you see or suspect any underage activity on Grindr, please report it immediately here or in the app by tapping the Ø icon in the upper-right corner of the screen → Report → Underage.

Grindr is an adults-only app. We take a multi-pronged approach to keep minors - and predators - off the platform.
Travel

Bleachers, Back Rows, and Bedrooms: The Top 10 Places to Hook Up When You’re Home for the Holidays

Heading home for the holidays? With Roam, you can scope out your hometown grid before you even pack your bags. Consider it your head start on holiday hookups.
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When you’re home for the holidays, figuring out where to hookup is half the battle. Bleachers? Parking lot? What the hell, sure. Your family and friends might imagine you snowed in with a cozy fire, but we know better. You didn’t come all this way just for eggnog and awkward small talk. Luckily, we’ve done the scouting for you.

Welcome to Grindr’s Top 10 Holiday Hookup Hotspots—proof that the place you grew out of might still have some charm after all. 

#10 — Behind the High-School Bleachers

The bleachers creak like your knees after too many…squats, but they still do the job. The cold air snaps at you, making you cling tighter, and each whispered laugh bounces around like a ghost of homecoming past. Sure, it’s freezing, but that just gives you an excuse to slide those hands further south.

#9 — The Back Row of Your Local Movie Theater

Forget the screen—the real show’s in the back row. You ditch the popcorn as your hookup’s hand creeps over, and suddenly every moan from the movie feels way too on-the-nose. The film’s forgettable, but this action will stay with you long after the credits roll.

#8 — The Motel Stairwell Under the Flickering “Vacancy” Sign

Nothing says “holiday cheer” like antifreeze fumes and stale smoke while you’re pinned against salty concrete steps. It’s a throwback to the days when you grabbed quick, unlikely hookups wherever you could. The vacancy sign’s flicker screams “This. Is. Cinema!”—and you’re absolutely loving your low-budget arthouse moment.

#7 — The Town Library’s Stacks

After hours, it’s dead quiet—just you, your hookup, and the faint hum of ancient fluorescents.

The old bulletin board’s covered in leftover flyer corners, and it’s cold enough to see your breath. Every rustle sounds loud as hell. Outside, maybe an off-duty librarian. Inside, just two adults trying not to knock over a stack of outdated brochures while groping under dim lights.

#6 — The Department Store Dressing Room

You came in for holiday slacks and ended up losing them altogether. What started as a quick errand now has your back pressed to the wall, your hookup’s mouth on yours. Coats fall, shirts wrinkle, and every knock at the door says you shouldn’t be doing this…but stopping just isn’t something that’s in stock.

#5 —A Friend’s Garage During Their Holiday Party

Inside, they’re wearing ugly sweaters and butchering carols. Out here, you’re pressing your hookup against a workbench, trying not to send tools clanging everywhere. The muffled party buzz leaks through the walls. Hard breathing, lip biting—the works. And you’re simply just too turned on to care that you just hit a box of rusty nails with your elbow.

#4 — The Church Attic After Midnight Mass

Everyone else stumbled home to sleep off the sermon. You two slipped upstairs into a dusty attic full of old holiday décor. One bare bulb, cobwebs galore, and you’re making out in a place nobody’s supposed to be. This is forbidden fruit, holiday edition. Jesus isn’t judging—that’s the big misconception. He’s a dirty little voyeur who’s enjoying the show.

#3 — The Backyard Porch

Most nights, this porch is just a porch. Tonight, it’s the center of the universe, and it’s going to rock your world. The neighbor’s light isn’t bright enough to ruin the mood, and nobody inside has a clue. It’s late, everyone’s inside dreaming of sugarplums or whatever, and you two are out here getting handsy on a porch step that’s seen better days. Old wood, cold air, warm hands. Hell yeah.

#2 — Knee-Deep in the Passenger Seat of Your Dad’s Parked Minivan

Is it casual now? No, it’s your dad’s minivan. But it's not just a minivan—it's a time machine, taking you back to the reckless, shameless hookups of teenage glory. The tight squeeze, the foggy windows, the plastic cupholder digging into your thigh… you’re just praying nobody walks by to see two grown adults going at it in a Ford Windstar. Hometown hookups might mean limited options, but in this van, the limit does not exist.

#1 — Your Old Bedroom

Out of all the places you could hook up, this one’s got it all—nostalgia, risk, forbidden excitement. Your bed still has a dent where you used to sleep, and you're about to add another. Risk? High. Turn-on? Higher. You’re both giggling like the stars of a coming-of-age film, half afraid someone’s gonna knock on the door. Congratulations, you’ve hit the ultimate holiday homecoming jackpot.

Heading home for the holidays? With Roam, you can scope out your hometown grid before you even pack your bags. Consider it your head start on holiday hookups.
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