11 Threesome Positions for Triumphant Trios

Two's company, but three's a (sex) party. 

Having a threesome is at the top of many sex bucket lists. We don't blame you. With so many hot guys out there, why not go double dutch on dick? 

Still, when the time comes to hook up with two (or more) guys, understanding what to do with so much ass may feel less intuitive than sex between two partners. That’s why figuring out how to keep everyone entertained with the right threesome positions is worth the extra effort. 

The art of third wheeling: 11 of the best threesome positions

The best threesomes are always a team effort. It might not always seem easy to find fun sex positions where everyone gets to play, but with a little creativity and communication, no one will get stuck watching from the sidelines (unless you're into that, of course). 

1. The Circle Jerk

No other sex position has entered the cultural lexicon quite like the circle jerk. In everyday queerspeak, too much mutual praise can come off as shade. But in the bedroom, a masturbation circle is a genuine crowd-pleaser. If you're new to group sex, this is a great position to start foreplay and overcome performance anxiety. 

How to do it: It's as simple as it sounds. Stand or knee in a circle with your partners, unzip, and start playing with each other's dicks. You can use your other hand to feel up yourself and your partners. Spice it up with fingering, sex toys, and synchronizing orgasms. 

2. Two-for-One 

If you love to give oral, this is your moment to multitask with a mouthful of dick. This is also a great position to set partners with a praise kink over the edge since there are two cocks to worship at once or two partners to tell you what a good boy you are. 

How to do it: Two partners lie down side-by-side or stand close to each other. The third sits or kneels in front of them, taking turns giving each partner oral. The receivers can use their hands on one another, masturbate, or make the other partner wait to be serviced to build up anticipation. If you're curious about bukkake, this is a great opportunity to get (or give) a full facial. 

3. The Spit Roast

This is a similar deal to the two-for-one special but with a chance to throw a trip to Pound Town into the mix. This position allows one hungry piggy to get the best of being able to suck and be fucked all at once. 

How to do it: One partner gets on all fours in between the other two, who stand or kneel while stuffing Mr. Middle Meat’s holes on both ends. Depending on what everyone’s into in terms of being top, bottom, or verse, consider rotational tag-teaming.

4. One-for-Two

A threeway might be the ultimate sexual fantasy for a daddy to dominate two good boys. This is a great foreplay position to set the vibe if that's your type of kink. It requires one partner to receive all the pleasure, with the other two partners focusing all their attention on the receiving partner's penis. 

How to do it: One partner stands while the other two partners kneel down on their knees. One partner can suck dick while the other plays with the balls and asshole, and both can lick at the same time or switch from one mouth to the other. There are no rules, although Daddy might want to give orders. 

5. Grand Daddy

This is another dom position to kick off the ménage à trois before Daddy takes turns pleasuring his bottoms. 

How to do it: This position is similar to a one-for-two. One partner stands while the other partners lick up and down. Be sure to get his neck, his back, his penis, and his crack. Likewise, if Daddy digs being a voyeur, he guides the bottoms through mutual masturbation or penetration if one partner is a switch. 

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6. The Daisy Chain

Most threesome sex positions mean that one partner gives more than they receive. That's probably why the fully inclusive Daisy Chain is a polyamory go-to. Every lover gets penis in equal measure. 

‍How to do it: Each partner lies on their side, facing their partner's dick to form a circle. Partner 1 blows partner 2, partner 2 blows partner 3, partner 3 blows partner 1. The circle of (sex) life! 

7. 69 Plus One

You might have to play rock, paper, scissors to decide which partner gets the best of both worlds. Regardless of where you stand (or lay down) in this position, more truly is the merrier. 

How to do it: Two partners lay down in a 69 position, with one on top and the other lying beneath. The third partner positions themselves behind the partner on top. Similar to a choose-your-own-adventure, the third partner can finger, eat ass, take turns giving a blowjob, plow the partner on top, or all of the above. 

8. The Flip-Over 

While you're in the Spit Roast position, the middle partner can switch from doggy to missionary for a more intimate experience, while the other two trade high fives for kisses. This is an incredibly erotic position for the partners who are penetrating. Both get a full view of all the fun. 

How to do it:  One partner lays down in a missionary position while getting plowed by one partner and blowing the other. For more comfort, the partner on their back can lie with their head positioned at the foot of the bed. The partner receiving oral kneels over them, face fucking, or letting their partner suck them dry. The upright partners can lean in and make out or finish masturbating onto the partner getting penetrated anally and orally. 

Make it even hotter and have the partner receiving oral hold the legs of the partner being penetrated spread eagle.

9. Threeway Spoon / The Train

If you need a position for a tight squeeze on a small bed or the tailgate of a car, the threeway spoon is all about ergonomics. And if three men fucking one another doesn't build a connection, thrusting in unison definitely will. 

How to do it: All partners lay down on their sides, spooning one another. Two people penetrate the partner in front of them, thrusting together at the same rhythm. The middle partner can reach around and manually stimulate the front partner. For a little variety, try turning the spoon into a train by having everyone stand.

10. Double Cowboy

For some bottoms, having two dicks inside you at once is the ultimate gay threesome position. But will double the dick double the trouble? Communication, tubs of lube, and a beginner-friendly double penetration position will help you pop your D.P. cherry. 

How to do it: Top 1 lays down on his back. The bottom straddles his lap, facing him. Top 2 stands between Top 1's legs to penetrate from behind. If the bottom is feeling too tight, he can loosen himself up with a dildo (to control the motion) or have top 2 loosen him up with a few fingers. 

Protip: Although Top 2 will control the motion of the ocean, whoever has the bigger dick should be the one lying down. It'll be easier to squeeze in top 2 if you're working with a little less meat. 

11. The Flying Frog

Watching porn might fill you with ideas for wild sex positions that aren't practical in real life, including pick-up and fuck moves. If you're not a gym bro with the core, leg, and arm strength to master a supported congress position, a threesome gives you two extra hands to live out your fantasy. 

How to do it: The penetrating partner stands and holds the receiving partner in the air, grabbing from underneath the butt. The receiving partner wraps their legs around the penetrating partner. The third partner helps sustain the receiving partner, holding from underneath the armpits, providing moral support, and helping lead the thrusting rhythm. If the third person wants more than moral stimulation, they can penetrate themselves with a prostate vibrator or wear a stroker.

Triple your pleasure, triple your fun

You don't have to be a math whiz to figure out how three become one. With a little patience, creativity, and a lot of lube, you'll eventually master all these threesome positions — and hopefully have a lot of fun along the way. And remember, great sex starts with open conversations. Make sure all three of you are on the same page, always. 

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