How to Use Erotic Hypnosis for Mind-Numbing Orgasms

Most people associate hypnosis with a swinging pocket watch, cartoon swirls spinning through their eyes, and someone commanding them to quit smoking or bark like a dog. And sure, that’s one way to use hypnotism. 

But another approach takes you on a more sexual path out of the conscious mind, exposing the pleasure that lurks beneath. It’s called erotic hypnosis, and it’s here to spice up your sex life in ways you never thought possible.

So, relax and close your eyes. Then, open them again because you really should keep reading. Here’s how to become an expert in erotic hypnosis:

What is erotic hypnosis?

Hypnotism is an altered state of mind that opens the subject up to suggestion. Most people think it’s about control, but it’s really more about relaxation. We promise it isn’t “mind control” (even if you think that’s really hot).

Hypnosis uses guided imagery to induce openness. You can probably see how this would be an excellent place to explore a fantasy, release inhibitions, and finally feel the proverbial rain on your skin.

Unsurprisingly, erotic hypnosis is popular among kink and fetish communities. It’s like a massage for your libido, using sexual thoughts and ideas to explore the inner depths of your mind while keeping everything safe and consensual. People practice erotic hypnosis for various reasons: relieving stress, strengthening emotional and physical connections, or just having a good ol’ go at getting off. 

How does erotic hypnosis work?

At its core, erotic hypnosis starts out a lot like regular hypnosis. It involves guiding someone into a relaxed state where their subconscious mind is more open to suggestion. This is typically achieved through soothing language, rhythmic speech and breathing, and ambient music. The hypnotist helps the subject focus on specific thoughts or sensations, helping them explore their desires without judgment or distraction.

Now, here’s where things take a turn for the sexual. If your hypnotherapist isn’t covered by insurance, this definitely won’t be.

An erotic hypnotist may use techniques like visualization — where the subject imagines themselves in a sensual scenario — or suggestion — where they are encouraged to embrace feelings of pleasure and intimacy. Some hypnotists will incorporate touch, while others let you ride it out solo. The beauty of erotic hypnosis is that it can be tailored to the individual’s preferences, making each experience unique.

Note that erotic hypnosis requires careful navigation of safety and consent, just like a kink or other sex act. That means establishing a safe word (more on that later) and ensuring everyone is comfortable with the thoughts and sensations they’re experiencing.

How to get into erotic hypnosis

So, where does one find an erotic hypnotist, anyway? It’s not like they set up a kiosk at the mall (as far as we know).

Here’s how you can experience this special kind of trance that puts a tingle in your pants:

Look for a hypnotist

Start by researching qualified hypnotists who specialize in erotic hypnosis. Look for reviews, credentials, and testimonials from satisfied clients. You want someone who knows their stuff and can guide you safely through the experience. If he’s asking you to meet up in a gas station restroom, you’re off to a bad start.

Know your reason

What are you trying to achieve with your erotic hypnosis session? Maybe you want to explore fantasies without judgment, find new modes of pleasure, or just learn what all the hubbub is about. Regardless of your “why,” establishing it will help you discuss your goals with the hypnotist so they can tailor the session to your desires.

Choose a safe word

Whether it’s therapeutic or purely pleasurable, erotic hypnosis is definitely kink-adjacent, meaning you should establish a safe word before you engage. A safe word clearly signals that you’re uncomfortable, and the session needs to stop or pause. 

Pick a safe word that’s easy to remember and distinct from other words that could come up during your session. You might also establish a movement or gesture that indicates you need a break. Entering such a deeply relaxed or altered state of consciousness may make speech difficult. Cover all your bases with lots of conversation and a game plan, just in case.

Will you experience a hypnosis orgasm?

A hypnosis orgasm can happen during erotic hypnosis. It’ll likely feel different than a regular orgasm you’d experience through sex or masturbation. Most of the intensity and pleasure are thanks to the power of the mind and deep relaxation. 

So, how can you get your brain to cum? You have a higher chance of having a hypnosis orgasm if you’re fully engaged and receptive. Thankfully, hypnosis makes this much more straightforward, but you should go in with the right mindset, too. With guidance from a hypnotist and an openness to sexual pleasure, you have a pretty good chance of busting a mind nut that feels borderline transcendental.

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How to practice erotic hypnosis on another person

Let’s say you’re in a Dominant/submissive dynamic, and you want to practice consensual erotic hypnosis on your submissive partner as a “funishment.” You won’t become an expert hypnotist overnight, but there are some simple tips to get started that don’t involve buying a bow tie and curling your mustache to look the part.

Learn about erotic hypnosis

Educate yourself on the principles of erotic hypnosis. Read books, attend workshops, or watch tutorials to understand the techniques involved. Knowledge is power. In this case, it’s also pleasure.

Discuss limits, goals, and expectation

Surprise! It’s time to talk about consent again. Fortunately, talking about sex and kink is hot on its own — like verbal foreplay. Start an open conversation with your partner about boundaries, desires, and concerns to ensure you both feel safe no matter what side of the swinging pocket watch you’re on.

Prep the space

The right atmosphere will improve the experience for you and your hypnotized honey. The more relaxed your partner is, the easier it is to get them to that pleasurable peak you’re both trying to summit. Dim the lights, play some gentle music, or use scented candles — whatever makes helps your partner comfortably drift off into a blissful world where Dom daddy dicks grow like giant sequoias.

Be gentle

This isn’t the time to be a hard Dom. Leave the whips and chains for another time. Instead, take a thoughtful and sensitive approach to erotic hypnosis. A soothing tone and gentle touches will help them feel more relaxed and comfy.

Take your time

Be patient with yourself and your partner, especially if you’re new to this. If your partner is struggling to get fully immersed, you can adjust your approach or take a break. Same if you’re struggling to clock in for your shift as a horny hypnotist. Patience is key if you want to experience pleasure.

Is erotic hypnosis safe?

Erotic hypnosis is generally considered a safe and enjoyable practice as long as you maintain consistent, clear communication throughout the process. There’s a potential for abuse of power when one person is in an altered state of mind, so we recommend leaving erotic hypnotism to sex partners you trust or a professional hypnotist.

Some individuals may experience heightened emotions or vulnerability during hypnosis, which can lead to discomfort. Be aware of any past traumas or emotional triggers that could surface during the session. If you’re concerned about this, bring it up with the hypnotist and ensure you start with a professional who can safely bring your mind back to baseline if things go sideways.

How does erotic hypnosis relate to BDSM, audio porn, and erotic ASMR?

Erotic hypnosis ties in with other sex or fetish play, including BDSM, guided audio porn, and those videos where someone eats a grapefruit in your ear for 45 minutes (aka ASMR).

Hypnosis aligns with BDSM for obvious reasons: There’s an inherent power dynamic between the hypnotist and the hypnotized. Audio porn and erotic ASMR both use sound to stir up arousal and pleasure, a lot like the verbal suggestions you’d hear in erotic hypnosis. The soothing tones and suggestive language in these mediums also overlap. 

Fans of audio porn and erotic ASMR should search for audio and video content online that incorporates hypno elements. They might find erotic hypnosis jostles their jimmies in just the right way.

You are getting very, very horny

Erotic hypnotism is a fun and safe way to relax, unwind, and have an orgasm that causes you to see the face of God. It’s not an exact science, so your mileage with the experience may vary. It could even change from session to session.

Still, it’s worth a shot. All you have to do is lie down on a comfy sofa while your partner whispers sweet, sexy nothings in your ear. Remember: It’s all about mindset if you wanna make that mind wet.

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